Let’s go back to when you and your wife first met…
When she fell in love with you and realised that you are the one.
You might have thought it was your good looks, intelligence, humour or your ambition that sealed the deal.
These traits may have been attractive, but it’s not what made her SAY YES to you.
The reason she said yes was because she felt a deep sense of SAFETY with you.
At an unconscious level her nervous system informed her mind that she could TRUST you.
This is why love and attraction has very little to do with what’s happening at face value...
LOVE and ATTRACTION is mostly an UNCONSCIOUS and HORMONAL GAME.
Once a couple begins to live a domestic life together with kids and responsibilities things often change.
This is because STRESS TRIGGERS THE UNCONSCIOUS making us act less like man and woman and more like children and parents.
When hormones change, connection and attraction changes too.
Stress creates HORMONAL IMBALANCE overtime and her nervous system can start signalling to her mind that you’re no longer ‘safe’ to rely on and she can’t fully trust you.
When your wife can’t trust you she’s unable to let go in her true feminine nature…
Which is naturally warm, loving, nurturing, self-expressed and supportive.
This is the state required for your wife to give you the love, appreciation and intimacy you need.
What you can do to fix this...
It’s not about convincing her mind to trust you because it’s her nervous system that needs to feel safe.
Her body speaks the language of hormones, not words, and it’s in communication with you 24/7.
For the situation to change your nervous system must send a new signal to hers that you’re STRONG & SAFE TO TRUST.
You have the POWER to do this by developing trust within yourself...
By getting to know yourself again.
It feels like having the confidence to listen to your gut instinct and trust it above the external noise.
When you TRUST YOURSELF again, so does she and will naturally take your lead.
This is how you get the love you want and sustain it for the longevity of your relationship.
The Mind Heart Method helps men avoid divorce & create a passionate life-long relationship by shifting the dynamic of your marriage so you can feel respected, appreciated, desired and loved.