WHY WOMEN TEST MEN - AND WHY MEN FAIL

She’s not testing you to be difficult.

She’s testing you to feel safe.

When she challenges you - questions your decisions or pushes your boundaries...

She’s checking if you can hold your ground without losing your composure.

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Most men fail this test in one of three ways:


1️⃣ They crumble - appease, over-explain, or back down to keep the peace.

2️⃣ They overreact - get defensive, angry, or controlling to regain power.

3️⃣ They avoid - disconnect, looking for 'easier' gratification outside the relationship


They all kill respect and attraction.

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Passing her test isn’t about “winning”...

It’s about staying calm, clear, and unshakable - even when she’s stormy.

If she can push you off center, she can’t relax into your leadership.


Want to master this?

In my latest podcast l breakdown the 3 key 'tests’ you may be failing:


🎥 3-Things Making Your Marriage a Living Hell (Stop Doing This!)…

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📅 Book your 1:1 Relationship Strategy Session

Let’s map out exactly how to shift the dynamic in your relationship

Because avoiding this tension won’t make it disappear…

It will only build until something breaks.

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Talk soon,

Sasha

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